The heart has the natural impulse to connect with other hearts. It doesn’t want to polarize or fight, it loves harmony. This innocence is corrupted from early childhood through suffering. We learn to hide or disperse our suffering through the usage of certain belief structures - both negative beliefs to cover our suffering and positive beliefs to justify our cravings.
“Oh, I don’t think it is ever going to happen again!” “If I will be good for the rest of my life, nobody will notice what I have done and how bad I feel inside.”
Slowly the heart is covered with these kinds of protective mechanisms. It starts to feel sad, bitter and lonely. Relating and loving become so difficult, because we can’t feel ourselves anymore. We don’t listen anymore to the heart beat. Pulsing is a magic tool to come back in contact with the music of our hearts. There is only one of us!